Inspiring Video, recommended for all the young guls & guys who are perusing their careers & willing to make a difference between a good career and a great career. During the talk the speaker goes deep into the analysis on what are the factors which hurdles when it comes to perusing your ideal career.
Its always hard to follow your plans, but its not impossible. To keep yourself and your goal intact, make sure you divide your plans into parts and follow them.
Today i will be sharing with you my eight points that i always try to follow in order to achieve my plans:
1. Always be Optimistic not over optimisitic : Be realistic but always hope for better,
2. Always think positive : even if somedays are going bad, dont worry take them as a lesson and try to start a new beginning from that particular failure
3. Their lives endless possibilities so if the world say NO. you must say YES. Be a little Odd
4. Never ever Give Up : Giving up over some objective is like you have a dead end
5. Always try to feel like that you can do it : Try to do something which gives you motivation from inside, it really depends from person to person. So one may be happy playing tennis and winning it since he is best at it, so there could be numerious ways of gaining confidence. Which at last makes you feel that you can do it.
6. Start seeing obstacles as opportunity : There are always some objectives at which we see numerous of obstacles. Take them as a chance of showing your inside out and become better at your job.
7. Look for a seed of something when everything is going bad : There are days when everything seems to be quite off and you may feel like their is no more opportunities left, people may start to push you down but dont give up look out for something, a tiny little star which is still left shinning for you.
8. Always hold the promise of doing better with the next job: Okie.. if you have achieved one goal then look out their is Next in the line as well. Try to beat you record. Compete to your self rather than others.
I hope these eight points might make a difference in your life even. Try to follow them, in case you have trouble understanding, do let me know.
Often while working towards your goal, you see an obstacle that blocks your progress. The unfortunate part about obstacles is that they come without warning. If we do nothing about them we are bound to come face to face with one of the following conditions:
- You Loose Energy
- Lack of Motivation
- Lack of Time Management
- Lack of Enthusiasm
These are all signs of weaknesses and come when you fear that you might fail, you doubt your skills or it may even be some kind of other social pressure that you have started facing again. Each of these factors is a potential barrier and could well and potentially prevent your ability to reach your goals. There are ways for removing these, or at least for minimizing their impact. Let us consider two of the most common problems:
1. Fear that you might fail
2. Doubt about your skills
Considering each of the above mentioned obstacles let us find ways to remove them.
1. Fear that you might fail:
This is a most common problem. We all experience a fear that we may lose. I often reframe this feeling in a very different manner. Losing is not bad…. Shocked ? You shouldn’t be, take it instead in a very different way : You have simply not reached your goal yet…….. nothing else.
Nobody likes to fail, it is however sometime important to do so. Failure teaches us many things, most importantly, “hope to do better”..
So, do not worry about failure, just continue to do your very best to achieve what you desire.
I always learned from my mentors that one should always take Failures as the opportunity to move forward. So i always learn from my failures and feel proud to share them even.
2. Doubt about your skills:
How strong is your determination to reach your goals?
Doubts lead to a lack of commitment and have the potential to weaken your confidence in your own skills and abilities.
You may start thinking: I do not posses the skills necessary to reach my goals, or , I cannot achieve this because I do not posses certain skills & abilities…
Some ways through which you can overcome these doubts:
1. Think positively about your skills and abilities
2. Concentrate on the skills which work best for you
3. Do not ask others about you skills, answer this question yourself, you yourself know better.
4. Be positive and work hard at the skill you choose
These are some of the most common problems we normally face, I hope I have covered both of them well and provided you with a solution. Please look into both of them and if you have any problems related to achieving your goal. You can surely contact me at admin@theideallab.com
In continuation to the Self improvement posts. This is one of the most important post/point out of the Four Steps to success. This is also a point where many of us often loose focus.
“A definite difference between those who are successful and those who are not.”
Today we will discuss how can we focus towards our goal.
If you search over the internet, you will find numerous ways on How to stay focused towards your goal. More or less all of them are right & are good to follow even. But let me share with you my secret.
Since last 8 years, i have been following this and i have no doubt in saying this that i never ended up being unsuccessful. I believe the best way to achieve your goal is to have a “Short Term Plans” rather than single “Long Term Plan”. I personally find them easy to achieve and they help me stay focused.
Let’s take an example:
Let say you want to be a successful Entrepreneur. Now if you see, this is a LONG TERM PLAN. You cannot achieve this in 1 day. By just staring at this and have no short term plans you can not remain focused.
Try to see the hidden questions which are present over here, which we need to ask ourselves.
1. Its ok, that i want to be a successful Entrepreneur but in what field?
2. What’s the methodology that i need to follow in order to get this?
3. Am i going to be building a product or consulting a business?
4. If its a Product then what should be the product model?
5. What should be the MVP of it?
Above are just few examples of the hidden questions that we never see or if see, don’t want to answer them. I say these are very important questions to answer, reason they lead you towards the SHORT TERM PLAN.
Just to give you an example a few SHORT TERM PLANS from the above list:
1. Getting intouch with the right sort of the people who are successful Entrepreneurs, knowing their failures and success stories
2. Getting the right Idea
3. Doing the Market Research
All of these if you see needs a specific spell (some time). I call them SHORT TERM PLANS.
I personally think this is the best way of moving forward. By setting down clear and specific short term plans, you will be able to stay focused towards what you want and hence be in a better position to take action accordingly.
This is foremost the most difficult question you would have ever been questioned, because most of us are normally too confuse. So as this era came in my life too.
Luckily! I found a way to solve. When I was in high school, my elders and all other came out with their tons of suggestions, for which I am thankful to them.
But, normally this decision should be taken by oneself and the better way to answer this question is to ASK YOUR SELF repeatedly.
So I founded an easy way to answer this question and I started to answer this question from very beginning, from my school time.
Note: Easy way to answer any question is to see it root causes and answer them first. Following this rule, I divided my question into further question
Question No. 1
Which subjects you always use to study and they use to be your best?
My Answer: Computers
Question No. 2
What was the reason of scoring more marks than other subjects?
(This could possibly be because of your teachers, the way they use to deliver or could be because the subject seems to be more practical than theory based)
My Answer: Subject seems to be more practical than theory based
Question No. 3
Why you use to enjoy them?
(Well this question is the most critical in all, since if you use to enjoy just because of the teacher, it was easy or you use to score more then I think you should not take this subject into consideration reason being gradually you will lose your focus)
My Answer: From my early days I use to love programming, and as per my parents even I use to sit for long hours doing programming, and whenever I use to solve a problem I use to celebrate a lot. This is why I end up being a programmer.
Well the above questions are just few examples of how you can come up with different questions to yourself. I hope this post of mine will help you find your own goal of life.
Well everyone wants his or her career to be successful and want to achieve whatever he desires, but not everyone is able to achieve it. There are several reasons why a person is not able to achieve them. The foremost in all is they lack determination. As long as a person is determined and is focused towards whatever he desired to be, he will eventually achieve it, no matter what sorts of hurdles come.
I will be sharing with you all my own 4 Steps that I use to follow to achieve my goals. These Steps will be divided into a series of four posts, each of them including one step. The Four Steps includes:
- Finding what you really want to be?
- Focusing towards your Goal
- Developing an Action Plan against the things which wont let you achieve your goals
- Following your plans
I just read something very interesting from Tea Talk, i thought to share with you people, these are the rules suggested by Bill Gates: Rule 1: Life is not fair – get used to it! Rule 2: The world doesn’t care about your self-esteem. The world will expect you to accomplish something BEFORE you feel good about yourself. Rule 3: You will NOT make $60,000 a year right out of Read More ...
